Mastering the Art of a Magnetic Personality

 In today’s world, your ability to attract people with a great and likeable personality can help you make good social and professional connections. A person possessing an attractive personality have a fusion of both internal and external characteristics that effortlessly draws people towards them. A person’s positive and optimistic nature can act as a magnet, the way someone portrays himself to the world also adds weight to his character.

Throughout  this article, we will explore all those characteristics of a captivating personality and offer guidance on how you can adopt them into your own character.

Love yourself first:

"Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line." - Lucille Ball

For to be loved by someone, we must love ourself first. If we don’t love ourself, how can we expect others to do so?

Self love is the first thing everyone should have. Love yourself the way you are and everything around you will definitely change. The moment we start loving ourselves, we develop positive energy in us and our surroundings. And certainly, the positive energy will attract others to us.

Keep a good smile on your face:

"Smile, it is the key that fits the lock of everybody's heart." - Anthony J. D'Angelo

Smile often, it will make you look more beautiful. A good smile is a very powerful non-verbal gesture that can easily make you more likeable. Whenever we see someone with a positive, warm smile we also feel happy. A smile makes you look friendly and kind. So, whenever you meet someone, don’t forget to greet them with a good smile on your face.

Don’t be a fake:

"Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are." - Brené Brown

Be sincere, authentic and always show your true self to others. Don’t fake your personality. If you are true, positive people will surely come to you and they’ll appreciate your sincerity. And if you work on yourself by enhancing your knowledge, skills and good qualities you can easily make anyone like you with your true version.

Make them laugh:

"A day without laughter is a day wasted." - Charlie Chaplin

"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people." - Victor Borge

Everybody loves to be with a person who makes them laugh. A good sense of humour will add value to your personality. With laughs and smiles you can create a positive energy around you and bring joy to others lives. By making others laugh and smile you can bring joy and happiness to their lives and give them relief from a stressful life. A laughing together they share a moment of their life with you and it makes a good connection between you and them.

 

Don’t talk shit about someone on their back:

"Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people." - Eleanor Roosevelt

"Speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.

It is essential to realize the impact of talking negative things about anyone on their back. Taking part in gossips can fill your mind with unnecessary things and negatively impact on your mindset. Talking negative things about someone can make you lose your social reputation. People will think of you as an untrustworthy person who spreads negativity about others. So instead of wasting time in such things, try to invest your time in making a growth mindset and being supportive towards others.  It will build their trust in you.

 

Be a good listener:

"One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say." - Bryant H. McGill

"The art of conversation lies in listening." - Malcolm Forbes

When you are having a communication with someone, always try to be a good listener. Listen to their thoughts, feeling and opinions. When you truly listen to someone, you let them know they matter. People gets easily drawn to those who listens to their thoughts and opinions. Ask thoughtful questions about the thing they are talking. It makes them realize that you are actively listening to them and you genuinely have interest in whatever they are talking.

Ask others about themselves:

"To be interesting, be interested." - Dale Carnegie

Everybody loves to talk about themselves. Showing interest in others is the best way to establish a connection. So, ask them about their likes, dislikes, what do they do. Ask for them opinions. Also try to ask open-ended questions to encourage them to talk more. It can deepen the conversation and also make them feel valued and respected.

Compliment others:

"A kind word is like a spring day." - Russian Proverb

"A sincere compliment is a gift that can brighten someone's day." - Unknown

Who doesn’t want get complimented?

A good compliment can make anyone feel happy. Even a simple compliment can also create a big impact on others. It can make their day better. And certainly, they will start liking you because it was you who made their day better.

Stop whining:

"Complaining is draining. Taking action is empowering." - Karen Salmansohn

By constantly complaining about something or someone you’ll feel unhappy and stressed. It can make you a negative person who is always dissatisfied with everything. If you complain more often, you will lose people’s interest in you. So, try to avoid focusing on each and every bad happening in your life and instead, develop a solution-oriented mindset.

Be confident:

"Believe you can and you're halfway there." - Theodore Roosevelt

By keeping a confident personality, you will create positivity around you. And the positivity will act as a magnet and it will attract like-minded people to you. To become a confident person, you must focus on improving yourself, enhancing your knowledge and skills. Try to learn new things daily, learn new languages. It will make you different from others.

Keep good gestures:

"Be the reason someone believes in the goodness of people." - Karen Salmansohn

"Gestures of kindness have the power to change someone's day, or even their life." - Unknown

Our gestures can make a good impression on anyone. These gestures can be verbal or non-verbal. Verbal gestures involves greetings, compliments and non-verbal gestures includes a positive smile, a warm handshake. You can also show a good gesture by being supportive towards others, by giving a helping hand to them and uplift them. Also take some time to compliment others. It will make you more likeable.

Be a person of your words:

"Say what you mean and mean what you say." – Unknown

"Let your words be few and your actions be true." - Unknown

Never make fake promises. If you can’t satisfy other’s needs then don’t make a promise. It will impact on your relationship with others if you break their trust and belief. Or if you make a promise then do not forget to accomplish it. Also, if you make a commitment then take an action and give your 100% to get it. By doing so, you build confidence in yourself and others will have a faith in you. They will like to have your company.

Wear nice clothes:

"When you look good, you feel good. And when you feel good, you attract others towards you." - Unknown

While the real beauty lies in our inner souls but sometimes your outer look also matters. The way you showcase yourself to the world can make a significant difference. However, to look good, you do not always have to wear new and expensive clothes but you must dress good, wear something that you think looks good on you. Whenever we something good, our mood also changes and we feel good. And when we feel good the persons around us also feels good vibes.